From The Tampa Tribune
If suicide among teens is rare, the thought of it isn't. One in five Hillsborough County high school students considered ending his or her life in the past year.
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Lois Redwine and David Uhlarik discuss the loss of their son, Joshua Uhlarik, a 16-year-old Armwood student-athlete who took his own life in January.
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The following is a list of phone numbers and Web sites for information about suicide.
Depression and suicidal feelings are treatable mental disorders. Many of the symptoms of suicidal feelings are similar to those of depression. Parents should be aware of the following signs in adolescents who may try to kill themselves:
A teenager who is planning to take his or her own life may also complain of being a bad person or feeling rotten inside. They may give verbal hints with statements such as: ''I won't be a problem for you much longer,'' ''Nothing matters,'' ''It's no use,'' and ''I won't see you again.''
They may put their affairs in order, for example, give away favorite possessions, clean his or her room, throw away important belongings and become suddenly cheerful after a period of depression. They may also have signs of psychosis (hallucinations or bizarre thoughts).
If a child or adolescent says, "I want to kill myself," or "I'm going to commit suicide," always take the statement seriously and immediately seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.
Sources: American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
People often feel uncomfortable talking about death. However, asking the child or adolescent whether he or she is depressed or thinking about suicide can be helpful. Don't be afraid to say the word "suicide" - getting the word out in the open may provide assurance that somebody cares and is offering an opportunity to talk about problems.
Remind your teen that problems, no matter how extreme or difficult, can be worked out and that you are willing to help. Ask him to talk about his feelings, and listen carefully. Do not dismiss problems or get angry. Reassure him of your love.
Remove all lethal weapons from your home, including guns.
Seek professional help. Ask your teen-ager's pediatrician to guide you. A variety of outpatient and hospital-based treatment programs are available.
Sources: American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry